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Outstanding New Year For You …………..

Be HappySo: how about we consider choosing to have & experience an Outstandingly Happy New Year!

Wikipedia says: “Happiness is a mental or emotional state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy”

Could our Happiness possibly be about choice? I believe we do have the choice. I promise you from my ‘Heart’ – I am not being flippant here. And being outstandingly happy 24/7 would be ludicrous – because we do have the challenges, the uncertainties and absolutely we do have the sadness. Yet: we can learn to give straight focused time to the challenges and the uncertainties and we can accept that it is healthy for our ‘Heart’ to feel sadness.

If we can consider briefly for a few moments – when we were babies and when we were young children – as long as we were well, warm, fed – physically comfortable And we were experiencing emotional stability we were in a state of mental & emotional contentment – which, when we saw, heard, smelt, tasted, touched on something exciting, beautiful, intriguing, contentment could range to joy. When we were ‘at one with our world’ and ‘our world was at one with us’ we were content…………..

Today we were going to explore – the ‘how’ to solve, resolve & ‘heal’ our ‘inner’ objections to our Happiness. I think we need a couple more things in place before we take this step.

I’ll talk about these couple of ‘steps’ in a moment, because resolving our ‘objections’ to Happiness does take effort. Enjoyable effort actually, because the effort has immeasurable rewards for our life – the reward being that life can be experienced as a stable inner sense of contentment – no matter the challenges and bewilderments in life.

Just to recap: When you are answering the questions: And when I am happy – how do I know that I am happy? – and you then choose to answer the question through your own knowing – of some past experience – your thoughts and your feelings You then also ‘note’ the inner objections, such as: ‘Yeah but I’m so worrying about…’ ‘Yeah but I’m really stressing about….’ ‘Yeah but I feel ignored by this person…’ ‘Yeah but – I can’t say “No”…’ ‘Yeah but I can’t sleep…….’

Our inner objections to our Happiness are valid. Each objection needs our careful attention – to solve resolve, and heal correctly – and permanently.

So before we explore the ‘how’ to do this – let’s spend another week – for a few minutes a day ‘firming up’ our inner ability and resourcefulness to access our thoughts and feelings of Happiness. Ideally we would do this – access inner happiness for twenty minutes every hour & a half! If you are the type of person who likes facts go look up my teacher Dr Ernest Rossi on google – Ultradian Rhythms. Natural rhythms in our amazing brain – every hour & a half throughout the 24 hours our brain wants & needs to rest, totally in a state of contentment for 20 minutes. None of us will take this amount of time in our – oh so busy schedules – to rest & feel content within our self – leaving the world to ‘grind on’ with its problems! You can choose to do the 20 minutes Ultradian rest once a day? Here’s my free gift for you  – my 20 minute story for you – to rest and make your life happier.

Enjoy:)   Enhance Your Happiness

And the other ‘step’ for you this week – explore your own beliefs about – you can choose to feel happy – it is a choice!

The only times happiness is not a choice are:

1) When our inner objections are not resolved with the right attention.

2) When we are literally in physical danger, when we have to ‘run like mad, or fight’

3) When we are genuinely grieving the loss of a loved one.

Wishing you enjoyment on your ‘steps’ towards your Happiness.

Warmly

Sally

Sally Stubbs ‘Cures that Endure’

www.sally-stubbs.com

 

 

 

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