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Monday, February 25th, 2013
Sally Stubbs

Sally Stubbs

Sorry I’ve been a bit ‘off the radar’ recently. Life has been hectic.
I totally believe, no! I know that great good opportunities abound – for all of us – but we cannot see them or hear them or feel them when our minds are suffering because much of our unconscious – and conscious mind – is tied up in our problem state trying to find solutions, particularity the solution: I Must  “Pull myself up with my boot laces!”

Very British but actually defies physics! No Joke! We can’t! So as we continue to suffer with our problem, from lack of self worth to being overweight, to feeling perpetually angry with the world, to not being able to sleep, to feeling nervous, anxious, frightened and upset……… we are ‘blinded’ and ‘deafened’ to some of the really truly great good opportunities in life. Why are we? Because we have to keep our ‘eyes and ears’ on our problem, we do this in the hope that our problem doesn’t get worse. And when we do see and hear these opportunities we feel ‘frozen’ unable to do anything, unable to respond. We think; “Oh God that great opportunity is not for me! I’m too fat, too nervous, too tired…….. I’m bloody angry! I’m tired and weary of trying and failing, my confidence has fled….”
Let us consider a brief overview of history of our amazing human achievement:
Homo sapiens, the closest to us as humans, first appeared, according to fossil evidence, about 200,000 in East Africa.
The Renaissance was a cultural movement that spanned the period roughly from the 14th to the 17th century.
Since the renaissance, let us wonder at what we have gone on to achieve in a very, very short period of time:
The industrial revolution spread throughout Britain during the 1800’s. As we know the use of steam-powered machines lead to a massive increase in the number of factories and so on – amazing feats of engineering.
The technological revolution really started to get big in the 1960’s.
Why, you may well be asking, are we considering the speed of what we humans have achieved in such a short amount of time?
Because we need to ask: What’s next?
What’s next is the Consciousness revolution! “What does that mean?” a friend asked me the other week.
It is the Evolution of the mind. The healing of the mind & the emotions ‘pain’ & bewilderment. It is the clearing of the clutter of negative or destructive beliefs gained or learnt thru’ life. It is the mind becoming a ‘weapon’ for mass Construction of inner and outer harmony. It is the exploration of ‘Man’s final frontier’ – ‘inner’ space.

I can promise you that I am not being naive here!
I used to be ‘blind’ and ‘deaf’ – to my immeasurable potential – I also suffered all the problems – the anxieties the fear the lack of sleep…..! And I got resolution, thru’ my kind of therapy work, so I know you can, or your friend or family member can.
So what can we do to resolve our suffering and our hurt?
Two main things we can do.
One – We can learn to unlearn our inappropriate unconscious responses, over which we feel we have no control, to certain stimuli or ‘triggers’ in our daily lives.
Two –  We can discover how to heal and free ourselves from our emotional wounds where we got ‘stuck’!
Do visit -contains lots of good solid rigorously researched information.

We need to discover the right way to clear our mind – to experience our ‘inner’ world as pristine. This is what I’ve devoted my life to: learning the how to do this.
Thanks for listening
Thinking of You Warmly

Sally Stubbs
Cures that Endure
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Wednesday, May 30th, 2012

This is an impromptu letter, completely a ‘flow of consciousness’ so please forgive any frayed edges……. Thank you.
And, it’s a one off, well for now it’s a one off!!! One thing that I am proud of being is Flexible!
So, I could well do this again……..
Anyway –
I frequently get asked questions like: “I’ve had no traumas in my life, but I feel ‘stuck’ with negative things that are hampering my life. What can I do?”
I also get asked questions along the lines of: “I have had trauma, and I don’t want to remember, I want to put it all behind me and get on with life, but I feel ‘stuck’ What can I do?”
SO, –
Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday the 11th, 12th and 13th of June, from 9am to 9pm I’m setting aside these three days to answer your questions, by phone.
We’ll have to be organised, so please email me your question, which will give me an idea of how much phone time we’ll need, and please give me a couple of options of dates/times that suit you, and I’ll get back to you.
My private email address is: .
You may not feel that your question for me is confidential, but in case you do, to reassure you my private email address is entirely confidential.
The deal is our unconscious is driving our problem state. And our unconscious ……’ won’t get fooled….’ by diagnosis, direct suggestion, advice, tap, tapping our body (EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques)……. and so on.
Our unconscious needs the exact Correct attention, and part of that attention is Respect.
Yeah, Respect.
Paradoxical isn’t it!
We have a problem, because our unconscious took on the ‘pain’, bewilderment, anger, fear and so on – in an attempt to protect us – from a worse onslaught……
As I’ve said, Mike came up with the great phrase, after I’d been ‘banging’ on to him for months last year about all this (Mike is an off shore deep diving engineer, with a very patient ear for me!!)
Mike said one night last year: “You can’t Bullsh*t the unconscious. And you, (Sally) are not interested in Fast Food Therapy as there is no nourishment in that….”
Last week a lovely lady came to see me, she has been suffering a ‘nothing place’ life pretty much all of her life. And the respect I have for her is truly immeasurable in the strength and courage she has found through huge effort to make a success of her life.
She told me on the phone she would rather see me 1:1 than Work with one of my audio courses.
Very soon into our first session of Work she told me she felt anxious.
Here are the questions to develop this kind of information which will, I am sure, really interest you greatly:
Q “And when you feel anxious whereabouts do you feel anxious?
A “It’s here…” touching her chest
Q “And when it’s here (notice IT that we have discussed before) whereabouts could it be when its ‘here’?”
A “It’s inside here”
Q “And when it’s inside ‘here’ could it have a shape or a size – colours or colours – when it’s inside here?”
As we developed the information, she looked straight at me and said the most accurate and wondrous thing, she said:
“And it won’t go away with a sticking plaster – it has a ‘life’ force…..”
I did one of my Whoooopeeee arm waving things – she ‘got it’, nope, that’s not accurate, she ‘knows it’.
The next day I got this wonderful, exquisitely articulated email from her:
“….a quick note to say thank you for a very interesting day! My
personal experience with therapies (& I have tried a few!) has never
left me as ‘upbeat’ as I felt today 🙂 I feel like I ‘own’ myself
rather than ‘dumping’ myself on another – a very good feeling. Thank you.”

I have of course asked permission to share this email with you, as it is so beautifully said – exactly that – to own your self….
Do email me and let’s have some valuable phone time together.
Find out more about my Work and my values first if you need to, you’ll be a welcome visitor– which we are still working on to perfect though it is gorgeous – many thanks to Gary Hogg… he’ll ‘nit pick’ it to perfection and his designs are superb.
Thinking of you Warmly