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Posts Tagged ‘wisdom’


Wednesday, January 16th, 2013

Sally Stubbs

Good Day to All

I woke up this morning with a good plan to talk more with you about the’ Little Girl’s’ amazing pure wisdoms, particularly about what she has called ‘blind spots’.

I mean, there is a load more about this for us to explore and make useful in our day to day life. Assisting us all towards more happiness, more inner awareness in our search for our ‘pristine me’, more inner certainty combined with a wise flexibility.

Like I’ve said before I do not put a ceiling on our inner happiness!! Inner happiness is not a ‘sum’ – it is immeasurable in potential.

And, you know if you disagree with me, great, your disagreement will be a gift of exploration for me, expanding my thinking and perceptions, I’d love to hear from you privately:

Last week I received an email which uplifted me, (and I’m ensuring the content and the person remains private).
The title of the email is: ‘Finally contacting you!’ Their opening words are:
“For more than a year I have been wanting to contact you but always felt “inappropriate” to do so.
Tonight I am taking the plunge……”

It seems it was my friend ‘The Little Girl’, and her understanding of ‘blind spots’ which gave encouragement to this person to, after a whole year: ‘…take the plunge…..’ I felt privileged to receive this story, I totally respect the effort and courage an email like this one takes…………

Anyway, my plan for us to explore more about ‘blind spots’ today does link with my Rant!
My Rant is about a video which I decided to watch this morning, on the internet. Certainly it was put up there by a very well-meaning coach.

Well-meaning versus mis-guided – is my Rant!

The coach maintained that we can dump all our negative belief systems within seconds and: “You’ll wake up in the morning, jump up to throw the curtains back, and live an entirely new and successful life”….(Once you buy her: ‘Dump your negative beliefs course in seconds’…. nonsense)

Hey, I do not have any Rant about marketing Great products! My Rant is about products that do not ‘do what it says on the tin’.

Simplistically this is how our belief systems work: – Some of our beliefs, are actually treasures, such as our values, our social morays, our sense of responsibility and care for others and our environment…….
Our positive beliefs will have aspects that are undifferentiated from our negative beliefs. My allegory is like our pristine ‘me’ our pristine experience of ‘self’ – along with the added positive beliefs that we learnt though life, is pure water – into which also drops and drops and drops of different stinky murky stuff was poured!
Stinky stuff you might have been exposed to such as: “Your ‘me’ is unacceptable…” “Your ‘me’ is a failure…..” “Your ‘me’ is ugly….”

Differentiation required: – To separate and clean out the ‘stinky stuff’ & keep and maintain well the treasures of positive beliefs – Takes Time! And care!
Why do we need to Take Careful Time? Because our ‘me’ will not come out of hiding if we do a fast swift ‘clean out’.
As Mike says: “Our ‘me’ is not interested in ‘fast food’ therapy! It is wise enough to know ‘fast food’ will not nourish it!”
So, in praise of your ‘me’ my CD / MP3 courses take half an hour a day for 10 of the forty days to Work thoroughly on differentiation, cleaning out the negative ‘muck’ and treasuring our positive life enhancing, life celebrating beliefs………… this is where you can find details of all my treatments: please take a peek….
I have uploaded a complete track, one of the 15 from my ‘Don’t Wait to Lose Weight’ course on You Tube for you to listen to so you can get a feel for how I work.
On this track I am communicating in the language of the unconscious so it might sound a little strange, just go with it and enjoy the experience. (By the way it is not the track about differentiation).

Celebrating life and thinking of you warmly
Sally Stubbs
Cures that Endure

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Wednesday, January 9th, 2013


Sally Stubbs

More wisdom from my friend the wise “Little Girl”

I am wishing you every joy, and every happiness not just for the coming New Year – for all the years to come……………………
Let’s talk some more about my friend the “Little Girl” and what she has to say.
Because, whatever problem any of us may be suffering – her wisdom is wondrously universal. Her wisdom will assist any of us to gain insights as to how we can return to our pristine, resourceful, happy self, no matter if we are suffering with sleeplessness, or carrying ‘weight’ – or relating to our self without esteem and respect for our self.
Name it!
And if her insights don’t apply I’ll make another offer to eat my hat!
So my friend the “Little Girl”: She has been talking to me about what she calls ‘blind spots’.
“You can have blind spots about your ‘me’ and about other people and situations. Blind spots happen when you have an ‘Ouch’ sometimes a huge ‘Ouch’. Some ‘Ouches’ are small and they can add up, like a sum, to a big ‘Ouch’ Blind spots are made of horrid stuff – that’s not real though they feel real until you see through them.”
Bear with me please – this is such pure information, and can make for such huge important changes.
She and I talked for a couple of hours about ‘blind spots’ and I’m about to have the impudence to précis our talk!!
OK – examples are the simplest way to précis.
Your parent, parents, teacher, friend, sibling communicates to your ‘me’:
“Your (me is) stupid – ugly – useless – a failure – unacceptable………….”
Your ‘me’ feels ‘Ouch’
Add a few ‘Ouches’ together and your ‘me’ – your real beautiful bright useful acceptable ‘me’ goes into hiding, withdraws.
And your ‘me’ often takes your MoJo with it – into hiding.
The ‘blind spot’ pitches up so you no longer see your real beautiful bright useful acceptable ‘me’.
The ‘blind spot’ was created out of a non real, non true substance from a wrong communication, which caused an ‘Ouch’, from parents, teacher, friend, sibling.
By the way, seeing through the wrong communication does not take away the good parts from your Mum, Dad, friend…….
So why would you bother to restore your ‘me’ to ‘it’s’ rightful place and state of harmony?
Because when our ‘me’ is in hiding we have symptoms such as difficulty relating, sleeplessness, phobias, can’t relate to food in a good way, get nervous, lack self esteem. These and symptoms like them deprive you of a fully happy, harmonious life.
So how can you begin to restore your ‘me’ to ‘its’ rightful place of being safe, acceptable, beautiful, and therefore successful?

Get started on one of my half an hour a day for forty days courses on CD or MP3 download. (Money back guarantee.)
Have a look at the websites and
You will comfortably find and restore your ‘me’.
Your ‘me’ has your MoJo which once you’ve found it enables you to be and do whatever you want.
Jon contacted me; he wanted to do one of my courses and did not know which one. He said: “My problem is I’m really stupid.”
Although he is a successful business man, and he has two uni. Degrees, nice family and second home in France, he believed he was really stupid. I said: “I understand you believe you are stupid.”
He did my 40 day, 30 mins a day CD course Gain Self Esteem. He found his ‘me’!
Contact me if you would like my advice, on my private email
Once we find our ‘me’ and is restored to ‘it’s’ rightful place, like the writing that runs throughout a stick of rock, we easily become the ‘ever vigilant guardian of our ‘inner’ space – meaning the ‘Ouches’ from others no longer can enter our ‘inner space – Just as we do not allow others to enter our home and dump their ‘muck’ in our living room!!
Thinking of you warmly,
Sally Stubbs
Cures that Endure

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